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How To Ensure Your Success In Achieving Your Goals
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Ok I am going to give this a go. I am sitting at home instead of going to work because I depressed about where my life is heading. I am not comfortable having done that but had to challenge myself because I was getting tired of dragging myself through the days, feeling as if I was living life in a kind of fog- oh, doing things, setting up new challenges but without a central purpose related to *my* 'work' i.e. my life purpose in my head. So I have written something down, and also have a consequence. it still doesn't feel 100% right so maybe I will need to go back now and change something. Or maybe it will take a bit of time before the effect of this writing down sinks in. Anyway, many thanks for your website. I do feel more motivated.
Thanks for commenting Carol. Once you write your consequence down, make sure you let someone you know, someone who will support you, to keep you accountable. Also, make sure your consequence is something you really want to avoid. When I made the consequence of not achieving my goal to shut this website down, my focus was like a laser. The urgency and excitement was incredible and I ended up well surpassing my goal.
The goal you are trying to achieve should align with your life purpose in some way. If your work isn't something you want to do but you need it for the time being, come up with ways to move yourself closer to doing something that more aligns with your passion.
For example, this whole website was built an hour or two at a time each night, after work. Many nights, I only had 4 hours of sleep. My passion and desire is what drove me. Whatever your passion or purpose is Carol, find a way or make a way to make it a reality.
Just over a year ago I sold my successful company after working far too hard for far too many years. I left my business exhausted mentally and physically, suffering from ME and the results of a serious accident I had five years ago. comfortable life for my I feel empty. The loss of two close family members in this time has not helped.
I have always written. After working as a journalist I had a book published. I did not have time to continue when I started my business. The goal became the balance sheet not satisfaction. Now I am free to do what I want, but I was anguished to discover that I could not motivate myself to write. Thanks to you I know now what will get me moving: the terror of reaching the end of my life and finding that I have not done what I wanted. That is the very strongest motivation!
Thank you. Virginia.
Thanks Virginia. You're absolutely right about the terror part. Too many people end up in that situation. Let's not let that be us! The time to “write” your future is now.
You'd better do it that ezine goal, cause I do not want to see this (marvelous) site down!
Don't worry, that goal was achieved a long time ago. However, I didn't post all of those articles to ezinearticles; it was spread out over a bunch of other article directories. Thanks for the compliment 🙂
Great article! It's important to know what we want and where we're going to be successful! Thanks! Looking forward to reading more of your work.
Thanks.
11/8/11
100 cadillac directors by june 2012
What will be the consequence if it doesn't happen?
Hi Kevin, It is now the end of 2011 and even though I am very passionate about about being a real estate Proffesional it has really been hard slogging these last two months in the market that we find ourselves in. I had my own business which I had to close due to the property market crash. I have lost quite bit, in relationships(marriage) and assets. I have written my goals down and i am very determined to get back on my feet. when things goes a bit tuff and the next deal evades you, it does become disheartening. It is then that I turn to your site and the simple truth site to find encouragement. I am going to do the exercise tonight as you have explained in the above. My dream is to have 5 real estate offices within the next 7 years, however I need to have one first within the next 3 years. At this point in time it seems almost unbelievably. It is very coincidental that you have mentioned about Toast Masters as that has been a deep desire to join which I have now had the opportunity to visit twice and joining them within the new year. Well, currently I am renting a room, have not fix assets of mine, so if I do not succeed I will sit in the street and be heaped with debt. That is why I have to reach my goals in order to get out of debt due to my business collapse and build my financial and asset base again. Is there anything you would like to say or ask my, that would further help in reaching my goals?
Hey Alton,
Thanks for sharing your goal. That's a tough situation to be in but if anything, it will help you keep focused for the long haul, which is a challenge to do under normal circumstances.
I don't have much to add except making sure you get help when necessary. Seek out those in your profession who are successful and adapt some of the things that they do on a daily basis.
I have a cousin who does extremely well in the real estate field and some of the things he attributes his success to is lots and lots of networking, being very knowledgeable of the industry (he's constantly taking courses to improve his knowledge base), and treating clients as close friends but at the same time, having enough confidence in his skills to provide the best service to not become desperate.
Hope this helps and good luck to you Alton.
I have to buy a new car for me before this year finishes (2018) and I will not buy me anything, anything, until I buy it. If I don’t do it, I will continue to not buy me anything (other than food and medication). I am going tell my family and coworkers, my boss is my friend, and I will ask him to fire me if I don’t accomplish my goal. Thanks a lot!
uhm I need to apply for an honors program and how would I ensure my success in that class